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Italian American Stereotypes

By Salvatore Buttaci on Wednesday, June 20th, 2007, 7:15 am Comments

Poems, letters, and stories of Guest Contributor Salvatore Buttaci have been published in The New York Times, Newsday, U.S.A. Today, The Writer, Cats Magazine, and widely elsewhere in America and overseas. His newest book, A Dusting of Star Fall: Love Poems, is currently available directly from the author. Buttaci lectures on Sicilian American pride, conducts poetry workshops and readings. He lives in Lodi, New Jersey, with Sharon, the love of his life. This is his post.

Italian American gangsters of the past, like Al Capone, Lucky Luciano, Albert Anastasia, and even those of recent times like “Gotti the Dapper Don,” became bigger-than-life heroes. Books about their lives sold millions of copies. Films were made about them. Finally, their allure had become so overwhelming, it made sense to HBO producers to hire an Italian American named Chase to write a series about a fictitious Mafioso named Tony Soprano who suffered the same angst as the rest of us, raged over the same trivia, tried to keep himself together in a world falling apart around him. He had a family: a wife and children. And he had a Family: mobsters at his command who did his bidding without question.

If the story of the celluloid gangsters ended there, it would all be harmless eye candy. Unfortunately, it goes well beyond being simply movies for the masses. By equating gangsters with my Italian American ethnicity, the Media Monsters––not even subliminally!––convince the millions of viewers of an illogical syllogism:

Film gangsters are Italian Americans
There are over six million Italian Americans
Therefore, all Italian Americans are gangsters

Viewers of The Sopranos who live in towns devoid of Italian Americans accept the negative image the media project. Recently I met a man in West Virginia who told me I was the first Italian American he had ever met. When I offered my hand to shake, I’ll bet he expected me to shake him down! Sophisticated people in metro cities might claim, “I have friends who are Italian Americans.” They can watch The Sopranos and know it’s meant to be dumb fiction. But what bothers me are those who learn what an Italian American is by watching The Sopranos or The Godfather or any of those shows or films that portray us as violently uncouth, dumb as hammers, and married to Italian American bimbos who can aspire to nothing more than perhaps becoming “a little less stupid” than the next bimbo.

Something has to be done to end this ethnic discrimination. When Don Imus of radio fame can be dismissed for saying on the air, “nappy-headed hos,” how come he wasn’t fired long before that when he laughingly put down Italian Americans as “skuzzy grease balls” or “Mafiosi”? And how is it that so many radio and TV commentators, even meteorologists who are supposed to forecast the weather, find it humorous to refer to Italian Americans with gangster remarks? Why is it all right to slander my ethnic group but not the Jews or the African Americans or the Hispanics or any of the others? Why is it advertisements are free to sell their products in the context of Italian American gangster tales?

  • Carolyn
    How I can relate to this! I grew up in a middle-sized city in upstate New York. Interestingly, my last name did not sound Italian. My father was a college graduate, and my mother was very pretty and dressed very fashionably.Therefore, I was "taken for" a typical American. And..I was thus privy to all these cruel Italian jokes. Many people didn't know they were making these slurs in front of (Yes!) an Italian-American girl.I was just too bright, too well-dressed, too well-read to be "one of them"!
    When I was in high school, I was in Honors English. My teacher once spoke disparagingly about racial slurs. She then said she was once in an Indiana restaurant, and saw the words "Wop Salad" on the menu. Then she giggled and said, "I hope I haven't offended anybody!" I was the only Italian in that class.
    I felt like jumping out of my chair and saying,"If you're trying to make a point about how unjust ethnic prjudice is..why in the hell did you yourself laugh? It's OK to laugh at "wops", yet you'd be dismissed on the spot if you cast aspersions on blacks, God Forbid!" I kept quiet, but I was Very Hurt.
    I grew up with a friend whose father was a WASP, old-money, college professor. We're still friends to this day. She told me several times that her father had "warned her" to stay away from Catholics and Italians. I have no idea what prompted an educated man to advise her to do this!
    Since we were the best of friends, I was invited to her home on many occasions. I would sit at her table, and her father would make "sly" jokes about Italians..they weren't out right rude, but had very unpleasant implications. He once said that my father "pretended" to be well read by leaving copies of the New York Times around the house to impress people. My Father Read Constantly and Graduated From Columbia University! We had a library of 3,000 books in our house. He knew more about (just an example) Shakespeare than anyone I ever met.Why in God's name would this creep insult me like this?
    Plus, I was only 12 years old when this happened. It would have been offensive enough to do this to an adult..but to a child? Again, I felt defenseless. I'd been brought up to behave like a lady..my mother would have crucified me if she thought I'd been rude to this man. I felt very much within a catch-22 situation, so to speak. I was brought up a lady, yet had to endure many cruel jokes.
    Even in college, my room mate would giggle about "Eye-talians" and how they were anthropologically less advanced than northern Europeans.I mean, I knew she was "just kidding", but how tasteless and rude! Again, I was Very Hurt.
    In the final analysis, I'm fine about this mess. I have a master's degree and am a teacher. My children are college grads and very well-adjusted, happy people..and (Yeah!) happen to be very physically beautiful. My son is exceedingly handsome and my daughter is constantly taken for a model. So..whatever..let bygones be gone. I just wanted to say I know, ladies and gents, that it's always been Fair Game to insult those Eye-talians, but let anybody even look cross-eyed at another ethnic group and they'll burn you at the stake. God Bless and Thanks for Reading This!
  • Louis
    In fact, America was not named for an Italian. It was named after a northern merchant named Richard Amerike (or Ameryk) pronounced America (c. 1445–1503.) He was a wealthy English born merchant, Royal customs officer and Sheriff of Welsh descent. He was the principal owner of John Cabot's ship Matthew during his voyage of exploration to North America in 1497. This is more likely than it being named after Amerigo, as generally lands were named after the merchants who financed the trip, and because first names were not used to name new lands. If it was named after Amerigo, we would be Vespucciland. But we Americans are stupid, so perhaps I'm just flappin' my gums. John Cabot was born in modern day Italy, so don't worry. You can still be proud.

    Be proud people, but don't be ignorant.

    Luig
  • joseph
    you are all dumb there in the united states,americans and italian americans,we are in europe and we know how stupids you are there,full of stereotypes about all countries,we frankly don t care. p.s.your country has been named with an italian man s name and has been discovered by an italian tooooooo.....bye united states of amerigo vespucci..
  • European guy
    Forza Italia. :-)
  • abw
    I don't think the characterization of Italians is funny at all! I also feel that the only reason it appears that it is slightly unnacceptable to be too inoffensive towards other groups-like Blacks, Latinos, Jews,Asians,etc.- is because those groups are more vocal when it comes to protest. Even then, they are still stigmatized so the protests are only so effective!
  • abw
    For the most part, I agree with the article. I will say that other groups may not be given short shrift in comparison to Italians because they are more vocal in comparison to Italians. But not to worry, despite all the protest those groups still get ridiculed AND Imus made harsh remarks before the incident that got him canned. It is just that that incident "was the straw that broke the camel's back.
  • Paul
    Here is a disturbing personal experience that occurred last summer: I'm a partner in a well known
    family business in suburban town. A new employee informed me that when he told an acquaintance that he was working for us she immediately stated, "You know they're connected". I blew it off as a stupid comment.
    A month later the same employee revealed that when he told a friend of his who is in the same industry as we are that he was working for us on he was instantly informed "They're Mob". When my employee replied that he didn't think so, he was told emphatically "Believe me, they're mafia."
    The employee thought it odd that two unrelated people in one month were of the same opinion.
    My reply was that I have no idea why they are saying that...I don't know either person. Where the heck did they get that idea from? My customers love us, my suppliers always refer us as reputable business people...where is the connection to organized crime? (negative media images)
    My partner told the puzzled employee that his friends watched too many movies. We left it at that. I'll admit, I was annoyed that complete strangers, people that have never even spoken to us are spreading false and derogatory rumors based on nothing "real" concerning our company. So why were we accused of being criminals? You know the answer. That is our problem! Did the scurrilous comments affect my livelihood? No. My business is established and successful. What does my little anecdotal experience tell you about the status of Italian-Americans today? Even though we are normal
    folks, diligently pursuing our day to day lives, we have not escaped the disgraceful stigma imposed on us by others and ignorantly supported by certain members of our own community.
  • fcg#p
    Carole is 100 percent correct on this one!
    and when my family came here, they came
    without the intention of having a hyphen
    held over their heads.
    (sigh... if only we hadn't lost the damn empire...)
  • Paul:

    You haven't experienced some of the stuff my older italian friends did.

    Back in the day my friend Milvia, newly-arrived from Milan had a woman touch her and say in a surprised manner, "But you're not greasy and dirty."

    Back in the day, italians couldn't get jobs.

    Back in the day, God help you if you were italian in a catholic-hating town down south.

    True, Italian-Americans have survived and thrived in spite of the stereotypes. But you're talking about now. Not back in the day. I suspect the grandparents of contemporary American Italians would have a thing or two to say about discrimination and self-loathing. Remember also, that in some places, those stereotypes are still powerful.

    -C
  • Paul
    Americans of Italian heritage are at the top of every field we pursue, including the most prestigious. We have two Supreme Court Justices, a Mayor who was voted Time Magazine's Man of The Year and Knighted by the Queen of England, Academy Award winning actors/writers/ directors, the first female Speaker of the House, Congressmen, State Legislators, legions of CEO's, Wall Street brokers, traders and investment bankers, real estate entrepeneurs, award winning Chefs, top fashion designers, Police Chiefs, FBI Agents, Admirals, Generals, inventors, scientists, leading physicians, construction tycoons, pop music super stars, prominent athletes and coaches plus much more. Fact: Rome has overtaken Paris as Europe's most visited city. Fact: Italian luxury sports car brands-Ferrari, Maserati, Lamborghini- are doing record business in North America. Fact: Pizza has overtaken Burgers as America's fast food of choice.
    Fact: Italian- American average household incomes are above the national average.
    Besides annoying us, please tell me how media stereotypes have caused us real harm? Our Italian -American reality is so radically different from the mafia hood, urban dumbell characterization, as to sink into irrelevancy when examined honestly, unemotionally and rationally. The brilliance of Italian culture and the genius of the Italian people will never be seriously damaged by
    flimsy media stick figure portrayals and goofy palooka stereotypes.
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