Look, we either want strong black men to step up to the plate and grab wayward black men back from the brink or we don’t. I, for one, do want that and cheer it on every time I see it. So Judge Marvin Arrington asked white attorneys to leave his courtroom so that he could lay it down to some black knuckleheads before he sentenced them. I don’t get the big problem. If you know about psychology then you understand that shaming anyone, particularly a young person, will only …